Getting out and about whilst newly potty training is a trial in itself!!
We are currently in our third day of our "Staycation", taking day trips to local attractions and spending some time together whilst me husband has two weeks off of work. Of course, we are also entering the third week of potty training our daughter, which led to the dilemma of what to do about her clothing.........do we keep her in underwear or in nappies??
What we didn't want to happen was that she would revert backwards and stop going on the potty or toilet which she has done so well and sometimes with no accidents. So, we took the decision to put her in pull ups during the times we were in the car on a journey or out and about. We have made sure that we encourage her to ask us when she needs to go still, which in itself has caused issues!! It is all very well when we are near to facilities and we can pop her on the toilet with her special toilet seat, but when were are in the middle of a public place with nowhere to go, it can make it quite tricky!!
At the zoo the other day and eating our picnic, she triumphantly screams..."Mummy, i need poo poo!!" A little embarrassed, we whip out the potty and sit her on it, still munching her bread and carefully shielded by her pushchair, her parents either side and our cool box in front to keep her dignity and stop putting people of their lunches!! We did get a few disapproving looks, but what were we supposed to do?? We had no toilets nearby and she needed to go!!
There are times too where you just cant do anything, like when I was alone today and she asked to go to the toilet. I was ages away from the toilet facilities and only had her toilet seat available. I placed it on the grass and tried to get her to go, but she just said no when she sat on it........it didn't feel right to her. We then had a very upset little girl when she was very wet in her pull ups and cross at herself so much she wouldn't even let me change her until we were in a toilet.
I have noticed that she is really feeling the need to go and will voice it. Unfortunately, this means letting us know at 2am, 4 am or 5 am in the morning!! It is good, as she does go, but getting her back into bed and to sleep is a pain!!
Whilst out, I make sure that whenever we stop somewhere, the first thing we do is go to the toilet. The, whenever I go, she goes too........and I ask whenever we pass a toilet whether she wishes to go or not. I tend to find, if we can get her to come with me, she will go. She even doesn't mind if we hold her on an adult toilet seat if we don't have hers available. However, the thought of her wetting herself whilst we are out is so daunting for me, I still haven't been brave enough to change her to her underwear unless we are in a house with access to a toilet in easy reach.
It is a very hard time for a parent, especially for those parents whose children are younger than most potty training children. I am really pleased with what she has achieved over the last few weeks and can't wait until I feel we are all confident enough for us to venture out minus the pull ups!! The nights will take a lot longer, but by encouraging her to go whenever she asks, this will come sooner rather than later, I am sure!!